Saturday, 28 January 2012

love..........

so,... hey guys m back again..... 
i hope u had a great day........... 
i at times wonder how m i single, i mean why only me out of a loads of friends of mine..........(ofcourse there are still others who are single too)
but then, why i need love? 
lemme generalize this, why any of us need love?? 
rephrasing my question to make it today's topic of discussion: What motivates people to seek out love? 
should it be impulsive?
should it be dependable?
should it be something to do with choice....... lets hear for wat all we think it is... think of one single attribute and something that we are living for it....
when asked to define what true love is, even the experts have to pause and think. Perhaps it's because true love has different meanings for different people.

hmmm!!!! pondering!!!
my philosophy about love very much goes similar with the thoughts of Dr. Daisaku Ikeda
more like a derivation i should say.........
dont we all think of life somewhere as a manifestation of happiness??
dont we all somewhere really waiting for someone with whome we can just be the 1 we really are, one who can endure us without make ups, one who can understand that today m just out of mood, someone who should be nursing on your wounds you got from trhe harsh realities of life............. 
someone who wants to bear my tantrums in my periods........

but isnt that a lot of demands, n how being a girl we deserve to get this???????
ha ha ha :D 
we all hav seen us praying to the god to get the right one for us, right? 
but do we ever, ever realise that somewhere down the corner of the wide world that one perfect man  must be praying for a perfect woman too, m i really that 1 perfect girl, do i even possess even a single perfect of a quality.....
do we even try to improvise on our personality or just running for guys around the city just in the name of seeking love.....? think of it ....

definitely if a man loves u, he will never ask you fr an improvisation but think of it this way, cultivating a quality of goodness( qualities) may gift you a strong and happy and fulfilling relationship.....?

imagine, if you change yourself for good , how beautiful a person you can have in your life, and live a life regretles of any thing...............
i hope this change brings about the spring seeming so far in your life to reach you out soon, 
mind you in any country winter never has ever changed to autum, so make it a point to change it to spring......... 
its your time and your call..........
its me signing off....
crispy crunch....



Friday, 27 January 2012

what if i change?

hey friends, its my very first post and a very first blog too.........
i was searching for my first write up and eventually met my friend raina in the evening, saw her very disturbed..... uska bf is a jerk........ raina, honey dont mind but he is one.......... 
i am a person who loves to see smiles, and myself? i love that tingling sensations when i feel like smiling , i can smile for hours. but what is that one thing that obstructs the journey of smiles? 
something thats not positive, some thought, some words or some deeds that makes us ponder a lil more than necessary and yes, thats the facial expression i dont really like, straight, stable, strict........... 
a fight with some1 close in the family, a demanding lol girlfriend, raina's bf( i mean a jerk, he is genre of his own trust you me) , financial trouble, some health cause.............


there is a simple funda of deciding that you shud be thinking about it or not..... trust me guys it always works fr me.....
ask someone to click your photograph with that still, deep in thought face... and now watch out, do you really like it to be your facebook DP?
i hate it dear... seriously, achhi nahi ayi... bhondu lag rahe ho..... itne bure ki dekh ke khud ko hasi aa jae,
to fir keep on smiling na, who knows who is clicking you, if u only didnt like the pic forget about the rest of the world,
its all about rise up in your own eyes and see how beautiful you are , you look amazing.................... 
any blasting problem of your life and the only sollution is a smile... its a gift that you dont need to ask or expect frm any1 but you yourself.......... only then you can cross the step number 1 to turn winters into spring...........
all the best friends for this great Saturday chilly winter morning............. :) 
its me signing off......
crispy crunch