so,... hey guys m back again.....
i hope u had a great day...........
i at times wonder how m i single, i mean why only me out of a loads of friends of mine..........(ofcourse there are still others who are single too)
but then, why i need love?
lemme generalize this, why any of us need love??
rephrasing my question to make it today's topic of discussion: What motivates people to seek out love?
should it be impulsive?
should it be dependable?
should it be something to do with choice....... lets hear for wat all we think it is... think of one single attribute and something that we are living for it....
when asked to define what true love is, even the experts have to pause and think. Perhaps it's because true love has different meanings for different people.
hmmm!!!! pondering!!!
my philosophy about love very much goes similar with the thoughts of Dr. Daisaku Ikeda
more like a derivation i should say.........
dont we all think of life somewhere as a manifestation of happiness??
dont we all somewhere really waiting for someone with whome we can just be the 1 we really are, one who can endure us without make ups, one who can understand that today m just out of mood, someone who should be nursing on your wounds you got from trhe harsh realities of life.............
someone who wants to bear my tantrums in my periods........
but isnt that a lot of demands, n how being a girl we deserve to get this???????
ha ha ha :D
we all hav seen us praying to the god to get the right one for us, right?
but do we ever, ever realise that somewhere down the corner of the wide world that one perfect man must be praying for a perfect woman too, m i really that 1 perfect girl, do i even possess even a single perfect of a quality.....
do we even try to improvise on our personality or just running for guys around the city just in the name of seeking love.....? think of it ....
definitely if a man loves u, he will never ask you fr an improvisation but think of it this way, cultivating a quality of goodness( qualities) may gift you a strong and happy and fulfilling relationship.....?
imagine, if you change yourself for good , how beautiful a person you can have in your life, and live a life regretles of any thing...............
i hope this change brings about the spring seeming so far in your life to reach you out soon,
mind you in any country winter never has ever changed to autum, so make it a point to change it to spring.........
its your time and your call..........
its me signing off....
crispy crunch....
it is a little paradoxical i think. u on d one hand say that a true lover has no demands or expectations, but u also want us to change ourselves according to his whims and fancies, in which case he is no longer a perfect lover!!
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